Distance is surely a difficult thing to handle in relationships. Sometimes u want it as it gives freedom, at other times u hate it because that togetherness is yearned for. Simple things become complex due to it which further add to the kitty of problems /issues and on top of it if you are the typical girl u would want the guy to react to each of them ,which he won't (c'mon either one needs to be sane) !
But if you are lucky enough or have some cool friends and a sister like mine around and you get a chance to be together for some good amount of time, it is a bliss. I never knew what it means to see your partner without bothering about the bloody distance. For me it was almost like a dream which i never wanted to come to an end. There is some great thing called as human touch as scripted in ancient vedas also. Even the biggest of problems can be reasoned out with one reassuring touch (non sexual in nature!) .
There is a difference this time, previously when i saw you leaving me i used to get severe jitters with a heart sinking feeling like i am losing something but this time i was more confident and i know you will come to me..... I'm waiting :) Thanks to the sweet little sister ........
But yes its like once you experience that state of utmost happiness where eveything seems utopian, you ask yourself once 'kya yehi pyar hai' and it scares you because ye dil mange more!!
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In my case distance has also made me realize how important communication is to resolve issues that invariably creep in, reducing metal blocks that we tend to create on our own due to frustration or depression. It has taught me the meaning of my life without my gal and that makes me want her more…… :)
@ abhinav: It makes me think...distance teaches a lot, precisely to LOVE more and value what we have.....
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